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Living Life Through Distorted Lenses

Mar 21, 2023 | Emotional Health, Mental Health, Personal Growth

What is more important than the mind?

It manages everything from feelings of joy and love to anger, shame, anxiety, guilt and everything in between. Mental health is a complex issue, and it is essential to understand its various components. While mental health is often discussed regarding our thoughts, emotions, and behaviours, there are more aspects to consider. This post will examine why nurturing mental and emotional health is crucial for leading a more complete life.

The Mind-Body Connection

Many studies have been conducted on the mind-body connection, which suggests that the two are deeply intertwined. Our physical state can affect our mental well-being, while our thoughts and emotions can also influence our physical health. Taking care of your physical and mental states simultaneously ensures you are in optimal condition for tackling life’s challenges.

Nurturing Your Mental Health

Mental health encompasses a range of different elements. They go from self-care strategies like getting enough sleep and eating nutritious meals, developing positive coping skills for dealing with stressors, engaging in meaningful activities that bring joy into your life and building supportive relationships. Taking time to engage in self-reflection or meditation can also help you better understand yourself and what makes you feel fulfilled.

Nurturing Your Emotional Health

In addition to caring for your mental health, your emotional well-being is essential. This means:

– learning healthy ways to express yourself without hurting others or feeling guilty afterwards;

– understanding how your emotions impact your behaviour;

– actively seeking out support from trusted sources like family members, coaches or therapists;

– finding activities that make you feel relaxed such as reading;

– accepting yourself as a unique individual with strengths and weaknesses alike;

– setting realistic goals for yourself with achievable milestones;

– allowing yourself time away from technology when needed;

– learning how to forgive yourself when mistakes happen;

– staying present in the moment instead of dwelling on regrets from the past or worrying about the future;

– contributing to causes that align with your values;

– practising gratitude.

Caring for your mental and emotional health is vital for a healthier lifestyle that will allow you to live more holistically. By taking some time each day to nurture these aspects of yourself—whether through self-care routines or engaging in activities that bring joy—you will be able to manage life stressors better while feeling more fulfilled each day. 

Your mind is your filter to this world. Nurture it above all else; otherwise, everything you do in life gets filtered through distorted lenses.

Here are some resources that might help you on your journey:

National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH): the NIMH website provides a wealth of resources on mental health, including information on specific disorders, research updates, and treatment options. They also offer resources on coping with stress and anxiety.

Mind: Mind is a UK-based charity that provides resources and support for mental health. Their website includes information on various mental health issues and tips for managing emotions and taking care of oneself.

American Psychological Association (APA): The APA website provides resources for individuals seeking help with mental health issues, including a “Psychologist Locator” tool and information on evidence-based treatments.

Headspace: Headspace is a popular app and website that offers guided meditations and mindfulness exercises to promote emotional well-being. They also offer articles and resources on mindfulness and mental health.

HelpGuide: HelpGuide is a non-profit website that provides information and resources on various mental health topics, including depression, anxiety, and stress management. They offer articles, videos, and tools to help individuals cope with emotional challenges.

Read my post about how to manage psychological suffering on my post here.

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